The black socket (as used on the PGM-III) has so far been impossible to source. I think the grey plugs are used on the late Honda Civics.
The only plug'n'play kit that I know of the is the KISS unit. It has the female socket moulded into it.
Best of luck with the idea, but it's hardly a new one, and we've all come up against the brick wall already. Just trying to save you a waste of time.
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