Wow, i would have returned the forks yo, its not exactly a cheap or simple operation
If im not mistaken the oil is only gonna affect travel speed. Soft or hard is ofcourse due to spring rate. So, if you want it to slow up, just tighten the lil screw a few notches.
Did you refit the shockie as per the nsr page? (( http://www.dreamgate.ne.jp/nsr/technical/mc28SE_forks.html ))
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