The server relocation notice is probably your cache isn't updating... when you click on the link, try then holding the ctrl key down, and pressing the F5 key. This will force the window to refresh and not from your browser cache.
as for the keeping you logged in... ye, I think that has something to do with how we are displaying the forum web pages. Since we are displaying them in a frame, the cache isn't being saved properly, and screwing things up.
I am planning on talking to Andy about this in the near future, and moving the forums to just that... Not having them in frames workes fine.
Thanks,
Charles